Spiritual bypassing is the trap of using spiritual beliefs or practices – like forgiveness, positivity, acceptance, or surrender – to avoid an honest encounter with an emotion that is still present. It can look spiritually mature from the outside, while underneath, the real feeling is only being pushed further down into the body and the
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To shift your identity for lasting healing, it’s not enough to release old emotions and patterns – because underneath all of that healing work, you may still be returning to the same old sense of self. In this episode I explain why willpower-based change so often creates resistance instead of results, how the exact same action
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Forgiveness feels so hard because it is usually approached as a mental decision, when in truth it is an energetic process. Even when you have told yourself “I forgive them,” the old hurt can still live in your body, your nervous system, and your energy field – which is why a single memory, a name,
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The fear of being seen is almost never really about confidence, even though that is what we usually call it. It is something older and quieter than that – a pattern stored in the body, the nervous system, and the energy field that learned, usually early in life, that staying small was the safest way
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The energetic roots of depression are something that is rarely talked about, even though I see them again and again in my work as a medical intuitive. Depression is real and complex, and biological, psychological, and spiritual factors all play a role. But in this episode I want to explore a layer that is often
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Why emotional triggers in relationships affect you so deeply – and what to do about itEmotional triggers in relationships are almost never just about the person in front of you. When someone’s one look, one sentence, or one behaviour sends your chest tightening, your throat closing, or your whole nervous system into overdrive, it usually
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